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Yeah it’s right size. The normal adult penis measures approx 5 to 6.5 inches when erect.
Hi my boyfrend n i share a long distance relationship,exactly to weeks back we met n we had sex without any protection n he cud nt control n let it in i immediately went to the bathroom also i was taking my 21days femilon tablets during that time so i thought i was safe but my 21 day course got over on 10th Aug and now i havnt yet got my periods is it something to be worried about i am very tensed can u help me.last nite i had a meprate tablet as this had happ 6 mths bck n doctor had recoom that is why…plz sugg wat 2 do?
i am 27 years and newly married (1 year). i have a problem that when i am in sex with my partner i am ejaculate early i.e., 5-8 Minutes and my pennis is 3 1/2 Inches when i am doing sex after that my pennis is 1 1/2 inches. in the past, every morning i am doing mastrubation once a day but now it has been stopped. And now we are planning to burth child. but there is no possibility for getting pregnancy to her, she is also very interest to give a birth of child. please help me in this regard.
my name is rajan and i am 39 years old.i have a problem i.e. When i start to have sex with my wife the sperm comes within few seconds. So i am not able to satsify my wife. Is there any tablet i can take. Can you help me.
You need to take I-Pill which is within 72 hrs, since its been more than that you need to consult a doctor and they would give yr gf medication after which they would abort.
Abortion may sound easy ! remember next time to be careful or else ur making ur gf suffer and also she would loose her good looking appearance later, which will lead u to leave her as u would be dis-interested !
I hope this helps. Cheers !!
i have a problem that my dick is so small, how can i large him , my age is 19 my dick is only 3 inch and my height is 5.7″
i m 19 year boy i have no girl ,so whenever i want sex i done hand job, means i bring out my zygote myself . i want to know that it is good for health or not yet not what are the harms of its on the body reply my question soon as soon please
i m 19 year boy i have no girl ,so whenever i want sex i done hand job means i bring out my zygote myself by handjob i want to know that it is good for health or not yet not what are the harms of its on the body reply my question soon as soon pls
hello sir,i am a 21yr old boy.I have problem in foreskin i can not push it to the glans of foreskin.The foreskin is tight and i don’t even masturbate regularly.I am still virgin. I don’t know what is the problem and didn’t even knew that the foreskin should be pulled back of the glans.I want to know will it affect my sex lyf.Or i can hav sex there is no problem in it.plzzzzzz help me out of this problem as soon as possible through mail.
Every Saturday night, my wife dresses me into a beautiful lady. She does this for her satisfaction. The household chores are done with. Then, I have a clean shave, remove all body hair and after a shower, change into woman’s clothes. I sit in front of the dressing table and my wife transforms me into a woman decked up with lipstick, eyeliner and a beautiful hairdo. Then, a stuffed bra is put on followed by a designer blouse. After that, we arrange the dining table with food and drinks and enjoy the evening as ladies would. Post dinner, the foreplay begins and we enjoy sex. This practice started out as fun but now has turned into a habit. I have started to enjoy dressing and behaving like a woman. I even dress like a woman when I am alone.now i have started fantasizing about having sex with a guy & i talked about my wife about this . she seemed to be shocked after listening this but later on she said me “If i am happy with this she is happy too”.
what should i do will my further act will create a problem in our relation or it will strengthen it up?
Me and my gf had sex for the first time using condom but as she was scared she took an i-pill( emergency contraceptive pill). Yesterday she felt that she came in periods it’s 10 days before her usual date but it’s not like periods. She is having an abdomen and stomach pain and is having weakness and bleeds when she goes to pissing. Can you please tell me whats the problem she is having and how to solve it???
Hey, I was with my boyfriend earlier tonight, and we were having oral sex, however doing this he decides to stick my penis inside of him, I quickly took it right back out, am I at risk for aids, how soon do I need to be tested. I am extremely aids phobic” I am so scared right now.
myself n my guy had sex yesterday hw ever he just touched his penis over my clitoris n his penis was dry and he dint put it in ma vagina,wil i get pregnant i am worried plz help
hi
iam sameer my age is 22 mera ek gay boy ke sath bina condam ke sath sex hua aur jis doran uska vierya chut gaya kaya me pregnet to nahi hoga na pls ans
i have sex with my girlfriend on 23/11/2010 at 6 pm.her priod is over on 19/11/2010.i use condom when i done intercourse with her.but i think the condom was leaked.so i’m worried about her pregnency.is there any chance of pregnency?please reply as soon as possible…………
Hello sir,
My problem is the related with my Penis bcoz my penis is very small and thin. So, please given the advise and my age is 23 years. I am single.
Hi
First of all u need to go for pregnancy test.U can do it at home.By pregnancy test kit.It will cost u only 50Rs.If test is positive go for abortion pills.u can get it from any medical store
I am 30 years old. I do have a strong sexual desire and used to mastarbate almost daily. My problem is that i have erectile problem due to which i m feeling very low. I am getting married next year. Please suggest a remedy.
I have 2 girls & want a baby boy.just wanted to know does drinking a cup of coffee 1/2 hr before sex.Does it guarantee that we will have a boy with this method .What are the methods or sex technique we should employ as a couple.so that we get a baby boy?pls.reply
i am an 19 yr old boy… i had unprotected oral sex(rubbed my pennis in her vagina) with my girl friend during september (around 15th)… she got her menstrual periods around 25th of the same month….on 29 sept,she was admitted in hospital and found she was suffering from ulcer and stone in kidney…she is taking tablet for this… till date(6.11.10) she have not got her menstrual periods…. whether there is a chance of getting pregnancy??
or the delay is due to consumption of tablet??…do answer..plz
Many Indian women resist sex with lights on.. at least during early months/years of marriage. It would be wise on your part not to press hard for this. With the passage of time she may shed some of her inhibitions may agree to your proposition.
You may discuss the topic with her suitably and arrive at an understanding to start with with a very dim light, which could be brightened as she gets more and more comfortable.
YES! Sexual Counselling helps you to get the best of your marital relationship and sexual life.
Please read the following links, which will show you a number of ways in which a girl would or not get pregnant :
http://www.abhisarika.com/?p=351
http://www.abhisarika.com/?p=354
http://www.abhisarika.com/?p=362
http://www.abhisarika.com/?p=423
You will find useful info at the following links:
http://www.abhisarika.com/?p=404
http://www.abhisarika.com/?page_id=192
As long as the body and mind cooperate, sex could be participated in and enjoyed till the last breath, no matter how older you get. There are many many people who enjoy all forms of sex including intercourse well into their eighties.
Related link:
http://www.abhisarika.com/?p=314
I guess your wife is through her periods by now and that you both are relaxed.
In case she misses her period, the best thing would be to see your doctor as soon as possible.
Well, the chances are low, but it depends!
I encourage you to use condoms or some other means to avoid pregnancy.
Ask her to see a gynecologist, cos she has to be examined to see what exactly is swollen, whether it’s due to friction from insufficient lubrication, or the result of an yeast or similar infection or a Bartholin’s gland swelling.. etc.
Whatever it be, it can be treated successfully.. it only takes a couple of days. See the doc quickly before the symptoms subside on their own.
You penis size is perfectly normal.
Remember that penis dimensions have as much variation as height and weight.
The penis size is not related to body height or weight. This means taller people do not have longer penises and shorter people short ones.
Another point to note is that the penis does not grow beyond about 17 yrs. of age, by which time it will have attained its destined adult size. So it doesn’t keep on growing till 20… 21..22.. etc.
To reassure you once again, your penis is of normal size (we only care for the size when erect).
Very much normal.
my girl friend has a got a swell in her vaginal area and its itching. hat is the medicine for that. earlier v used to have unprotected sex earlier but now we use protection. v had an intercourse more than 5 times but less than 10
ques. nightfall in 6 times in a month is normal?
HELLO team,
my age is 20, and my height is 5’8”. my penis’S Size is 5.7inch, is it right size ACCORDING To my age?? pls answer me.!pls tell me what should my spenis’s size.! thank you team…!!!!!
Ok. The other day i had Masturbated but then peed right afterwards. A few hours later i went to my girlfriends house and put my thing inside her for only a minute or two without a condom how low is the risk or what are the chances or her getting pregnant.
hi..
i m a 25 year old and recently married to the same age lady and now having a happy life with sexual pleasures daily.
we regularly have sex and i alwayz use condom.once i dint use last month and so now my wife is a bit worried as we both havnt planned abt any kid.
the thing is my wife gets period in every 25 days and so considering that 25 days her due date is around 6 oct. but she havent got her periods yet.moreover she has got stomach ache few times and also feels uneasiness.actually she is more tensed also and so i think she is more disturbed by it.pls guide me wat to do???
i will conduct the pregnancy test at home and if its negative then its ok but if it is positive then wat shall i do to get rid of this pregnancy….
pls guide me….i m too much worried.
thanks in advance..
bye
we’ve been married for 20 years 5 children. At first we had sexual relations for the first years quite often an seemed normal. After the 1st baby her desire diminished and by the time my 3rd child was born she rarely seeked relations. she was very religious at first and has overcome some areas which she said would block her from feeling desire. Seeked relations with me maybe 2 a year maximum on her own. the rest of the times was always provoked by me. We talked and argued many times. and we only seem to make real love after we both reconcile after very difficult and strong arguments where I’m almost determined to leave. We reconcile and we finally make real love. I am afraid that she only does it for fear of separation.
she prefers to watch only lesbian porn. please help
I have problem in sex while i m doing masturbation i quikly coming to end in sex withinn seconds my dick is creaming..what should i do?
Dr,
I am 50 yrs old and single. I have recently shifted to my new appartment. My neighbour is a cute lady around 70 years. We are good friends. She is interested in sex. I am afraid to do sex with her because of her age.
Please advice sex is possible at this age (70)
Regards
Saji
i m 18 i and my gf had sex on 13th of this month.its not actually sex we had an intercourse jus for 30 seconds and i withrawn mine .my penis was dry and surely i didnt ejaculate at all.but is there any chance of pregnancy ?it was the 9th day of her period .plzzz help me madam i am so scared.plzzzzz reply me soon.if she becomes a prego theres no other way for us.
i am 27 old recently marrid when i initiate for sex wih my wife , she doestn cooperate for sex in on light she feel shy and fear for long time should i take her counselling
I’ve been studying my new husband and it seems that if several days have passed without intercourse he becomes calmer and more loving. Then we have intercourse and he becomes very dominant and sometimes menacing. Is there a hormonal change that causes this radical change in behavior? Is there anything that can be done about it? He doesn’t agree that this happens, but I’ve watched it happen over and over again.
Prior to my question, thank you very much for your help.
I have been married just for 2 months now, and we have been sexually active with my husband for about 3, 5 years now.
In the past year or so, I noticed decrease in my sexual desire, and after the marriage, it has really gone down. For example now, we haven`t had sex for 10 days, and I still don`t have any sexual fantasies or desire.
When we actually do have sex, I have problems getting excited, and it takes very long time for me. Even if he does things that would normally make me aroused, like touching my intimate areas, it just does not do anything with me. After I eventually get excited and we make love, it feels nice, and I do reach orgasm.
I am very unhappy about this, and I don`t know how did I become this way.
I do want to have sex more often, but my body just does not respond at all.
We don`t have any relationship problems, we are actually growing closer and closer, and we cuddle often and we are very happy together. So I really don`t know what is the reason that I suddenly find it so difficult to get excited.
I also absolutely don`t have any sexual fantasies as I used to have.
Please let me know what could I possibly do about it.
I could experiment with sexual toys, nice clothes etc, but I want to find more profound solution than this, as I think that sex toys and all these things woudl eventually become boring for me as well.
Many thanks
Cekanka
im 18 i had sex just once 8 days ago n took one pill after it…..i had no side effects except a lower uti n mood swings n a mild headache….r there any chances of getn pregnant??
((is it neccessary to take the pill the next day too? even if i dunt hav sex/??)
plz answer me
am so scared
i got married very recently. my husband is very much found of having sexual pleasure with me. he is forcing to insert into back hole. being indian girl is it advisable to allow my hubby for this or stop this. is there any side effects due to this? also i ve another problem which i don’t know how to express
Hi
I am very thankful to know that there are website like this to help those who have troubles in their sexual life. My story goes like this….
Myself is married for the past 6 years with 2 little kids and thereby i felt that this is the right time to pack off the daily sex, but there starts the issue.
My husband is very sexy and always wants to have sex at any time he wishes. he urges me even now saying atleast twice or thirce a day. This puts me in trouble and led me to my third pregnancy and thereby the abortion, but still he has not come down. he wants SEX SEX SEX at any moment, anywhere.
So now i am in a position to make him change, reduce his sexual thoughts and feelings. i thereby need your advice to help me and my husband to reduce his sexual thoughts.
hie,
i am a 27 year old guy and have sex relation with my girlfren.during our last intercourse i had used condom bubt still my gal is not havin her menstruation for about 3 weeks.we are not in a condition to have a baby rite now and want to abort it. is there some medicine(pills)for that????? we wanna keep it secret with our family so need some suggestion..
thank u
hello,
I m 22 years old guy with gf same age. We are together for about a year. We started to make relations three months back.
My problem is that she is very dominating kind of girl. She always forces me to cunnulingus. On top she practices bdsm on me… its only after that I get hurt and bleed that she stops. We love each other. I get great sex from her. I really feel comfy with her, but I dont like this bdsm or dominating nature of her.
Please help me.