Girl Friend’s Inner Lips
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| Single male, 35, US:
My current girlfriend has a large and “fleshy” labia minora that hangs about one inch (or 2.5 cm), if not more, past her vulva and her clitoris is large and bulbous. I have noticed that her genitals sometimes vibrate rapidly, as if receiving a shock of electricity, even non-sexual situations like bathing. I have only been intimate with two women in the past and although they were much “smaller” I have never noticed this. Why does my girlfriends genitals vibrate even in non-sexual situations? Is this “normal” in all women? I am too embarrassed to ask her. I am curious. |
| Answer |
| Women’s vulvas vary widely, in size, shape color and texture. They are plain or convoluted. It’s quite normal to have inner lips that protrude beyond the outer lips (labia majora).
Similarly, the clitoris, which is some what like the male glans, has as much variation in the size as any other body part. Its size ranges from a barley noticeable 2 mm to bulbous 20 mm and increases upon sexual stimulation like the glans does. Quivering of inner lips under non-sexual situations like when you feel a wave of chill, thrill, or fear is an involuntary skin response and is perfectly normal. Skin also quivers elsewhere on the body. Paul Joannides wrote a wonderful book “Guide to getting it on”. Try it. You will enjoy reading this very enlightening and entertaining book on sex. (By the way, you will find illustrations of variations in vulval and clitoral sizes and shapes in this book). |
| All the best |
| Poosha Darbha |
Maybe your brought up says a strong NO to premarital sex, even though, under circumstances, you want to have sex.
Maybe you do not have any such mental blocks but your partner’s approach (to sex) is somewhat rude (instilling a feeling of being raped)
Maybe you are still undecided about having sex with him.
It could be a fear of pregnancy.. or physical harm.
Maybe you have memories of bad sexual experiences (of your own or of others)
…
These are only (some) guesses. You are the right person to understand what your gut feelings are.
You may seek the help of a (clinical) psychologist to analyze and understand your feelings and fears and the ways to deal with them.
Whatever they be, right now follow what your heart says: do not indulge in sex at this time (when you are not comfortable with the idea).
i m a girl of age 22. my boyfriend want me to do sex with him. i want that but i dont know why my body does not respond properly. i get a feeling of being raped and i get nervous and i dont support him as a result he get frustrated. help me
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